thinks that she's not worth anything? You
need to have the confidence and self-esteem
to project dateability.
Everyone has positive qualities, even if they
don't realize it. Okay, so you don't have a job or you don't
have a degree or you had a bad relationship—that doesn't
mean that you wouldn't be an understanding, compassionate,
interesting and fun girlfriend. Everyone deserves a chance to
give their best qualities to a partner, no matter their
circumstances. You need to remember that you have a lot to
offer and soon enough a handsome man will too!
Step 2: Present a Positive Attitude
Now that you've figured out that you deserve a happy
relationship, you need to adjust your attitude so you can
attract one. If you keep expecting to attract the wrong kind of
guy, you're projecting low expectations and a pessimistic
attitude about love. So who do you think will be attracted to
that? A pessimistic guy who isn't looking to meet ambitious
expectations and who doesn't want a lot of boyfriend
responsibilities. If you don't present a positive attitude, you're
not going to catch the eye of a positive guy.
There's a quick tip to help keep your attitude positive,
especially useful for those of you who hate dating. Approach
every situation as though you're going to to have a good time.
Arrive to every date confident that the man on the other side
of the table is going to be the love of your life. Because one
of these times, he will be!
Step 3: Figure Yourself Out
If you've mastered the first two steps and you still can't seem
to land a quality man, there might be a problem with your
process. Do you know who you're looking for? I'm not
looking for a list like "Tall, dark and handsome." Do you
know what kind of relationship you want? If you haven't
decided what you're looking for, how can you expect to find
someone who satisfies you?
You don't have to settle for being a jerk-magnet. Use these
three steps to change yourself instead of trying to change a
dirtbag into a quality boyfriend.
YOURTANGO
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