6 SIGNS YOU’VE FOUND THE ONE

True love is hard to come by, and even when you find someone who floats your boat, recognising that they are
The One, rather than a passing fancy, can be equally
tricky.

Take a look at these six signs and find out if you've
really met your soulmate…

1. Fireworks!

Everyone knows that the first flush of sexual attraction
wears off, and to be in it for the long term you need to
nurture respect, trust and compassion for each other.
However, you need to experience those initial fireworks to
know that you've really fallen for each other, because
otherwise you're actually just good friends.

2. You've revealed the skeletons in your closet

Some relationships require heavy editing of your past
because your partner just can't handle the truth, due to
jealousy or insecurity. If you can comfortably talk about
exes and difficult experiences without feeling hostile or
defensive you'll know that you're onto a winner.

3. You feel comfortable

It's important to make an effort, but you shouldn't have to
feel like you have to try all the time to keep your partner's
attention. If you're constantly trying to impress them by
being that little bit thinner, or better looking or more
intelligent, they may not be the one for you. When it's
right you can relax and be utterly yourself.

4. You've shown them your thimble collection

When we initially start seeing someone we tend to play up
the cooler sides of our personalities and don't mention our
more eccentric bits. Your partner doesn't need to share
your odd, geeky enthusiasms, but if they respect them and
at least feign interest, you'll know you've got a keeper.

5. You aren't afraid to disagree

We don't mean you should argue all the time as that will
make you unhappy, but you should feel secure enough in
your relationship to be able to disagree with your partner
without fearing that they'll hit the roof or walk out the
door. A lifelong partner will listen to what you have to say
and respect it, even if they think you're wrong.

6. You share the same priorities

It's not the sexiest of reasons, but sharing priorities gives
you a much better chance for a long, healthy relationship.
Of course you'll want to pursue different careers and won't
always share the same interests, but your core principles
should match up. If you see a future living in a tepee in
Brazil and they're looking forward to settling down with a
mortgage, you might need to have a rethink.

Culled from Askmen