Sunday, 26 January 2014

"Don't be a woman that needs a man...." Stephanie Okereke-Linus' message to Single ladies

Happily married actress, Stephanie Linus shared some vital
tips with single ladies on her blog a while ago. Enjoy....
Hi Ladies,

The words in the picture above mean a lot and I think it's
something we should all take seriously.

Many times as women, we tend to feel incomplete without a
man by our side and would go to great lengths to ensure we
don't remain "single". I know that feeling.

But it's also important we do not express our vulnerability or
sound too desperate that we forget to build ourselves up as
individuals. Sometimes, we give up our lives, our careers, our
dreams for the desires of a man and leave our own self worth
and fulfillment aside.

I am not trying to undermine the importance of men in our
lives. Our husbands, our partners, our relationships are very
important and sacrifices can, and should be made sometimes.
However, I'd just like to remind us today not to forget who
we really are.

I know its hard, especially for women who have reached a
certain age, not to feel incomplete without a man in their
lives. But please, do not lose track of your dreams. When you
build yourself and are proud of the person you are, you will
naturally attract good men who would be inspired by your
success and treat you with love and respect.

I do hope this inspires someone today.

Have a great day!

Culled from Kemifilani

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