her tweets on relationships and marriage went viral on blogs.
She said she will say it once and for all that she NEVER
cheated on 9ice while their one year and a half-year marriage
lasted.
To those who still believe I cheated on my ex. I am sorry to
disappoint you, I never cheated on my ex hubby. Its not who I
am, it will never be who I am. Tell yourself 1 million times,
Toni Payne cheated, it will never make it true. Nobody caught
me in any lie, or in any bad situation, nobody slept with
anyone he was close to. Yall need to put a full stop to that
bullshit. Its old!. Sometimes, men want their freedom, and the
fact is you cant force them to stay. Same goes for women.
Everyone wont have a perfect relationship, not everyone will
stay married forever, we can only aspire to. Even those that
have been married 10 years and are busy judging others, do
you know your tomorrow? naaaa you sure don't so curb it
abeg. We can only pray, work, and hope for a good union.
Anyways To address this my ex said this or that issue. Let me
just say He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse
me of cheating. He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to
accuse me of sleeping with anyone he knows. If awon alaiye
baje wanna use our situation then to sell their crap, how is
that my fault?
The same media controlling the remote to say I think cheating
is ok, are the same who controlled the remote back then to say
his song was about me. Nobody ever called him to verify or
ask before publishing. Ill admit that we both did not handle
the situation well back then, It was the first time we would
experience such. The tension was plenty and emotions were
everywhere. We should have sorted it privately. which we did
try to do but one rubbish headline and emotions go buckwild
again. I don't wanna sounding like I am defending him, cos
he is responsible for himself, but in all fairness to him, and
because I have a conscience that serves me well, not for once
did he tweet, fb, email, interview anything of the sort. Our
issues had absolutely nothing to do with what the media were
speculating. People took a song he did and turned it upside
down. My crew MIXED AND MASTERED the song. If it
was about me, why would I allow him release it. God gave all
of us sense naa.. Some just chose not to use theirs and chose
to believe anything they read even when the facts are there to
sort through.
The only thing I have blamed him for, was not coming out on
time to refute the claims and allowing it to escalate to that
level, he has since apologized SEVERALLY, we have
discussed it privately as we should have from the jump. I
have accepted and moved on.
I have also apologized for losing my cool on twitter, he has
since accepted and moved on. Really, what more is there. I
am not sure what people want from me. Should I hate him
forever? Should I tie him to a post and flog him mercilessly?
Should I be a wicked person and deprive him of his son? If I
remain bitter and upset, please what value will it add to my
life? Wo, my life is much more simpler than all this. Those
who know me well, know this. Those that dont understand me
are the ones who will be forever outside looking in,
speculating crap. I am truly tired of this topic but since it
seems to keep popping up, i felt it is best to finally address it
properly. If anyone decides to hang on to the lie after this, that
is their own cup of tea. I have a talk show to record, poetry to
write and a child to raise. I don talk my own. FIN!.
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