Actress Omoni Oboli and her husband, Nnamdi Oboli has
been married for about 13 years now and they have in many
ways become a reference point to other actresses who rush in
and rush out of marriage. Omoni shares few insights with
Vanguard on what has kept her marriage and why divorce is
not an option...
What has kept my marriage going?
13 years now. Marriage is not about your status, so I didn't go
into it with the view to changing who I am just because of my
new status as celebrity. Again, I thank God because it's not
what I did, but the fact that God gave me a husband that I
love and understand and one who loves and understands me.
Many others who would have loved to stay married (celebrity
or not) don't always have a choice in their affairs.
Feeling the same love for him
I think I love him even more now than when we first started.
We have changed in so many ways and levels in our
relationship that has sealed our union, and I'm so enjoying
our thing right now.
Having a non-celebrity husband
Marriage to anybody is to understand the responsibility that
comes with it. In my marriage, there's no plan B; no thoughts
about divorce. The fact that he isn't a celebrity is not what
makes him a great husband, it's just who he is.
Second honeymoon
We have had many honeymoon. We find time to make our
little mummy and daddy timeouts count as honeymoon. Our
10th anniversary was in Dubai, and we had a great time.
Running joint bank account
That's totally up to every couple. No two relationships are
alike. If they have a joint account but make each other
miserable, how does that help the relationship? If they don't
maintain a joint account, but enjoy their marriage, who can
fault them? So, I say, to each his own, whatever works for
you.
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