Confessions -- "I Can't Forget The First Time I Made Love To My Wife"

Captain Matthew Ekeinde is Omotola's husband. He recently
spoke with Entertainment Express about the actress and their
marriage. Enjoy part of the interview below;

What is the secret of your 17 year old marriage to
Omotola?

I won't say we have been good because I
am a fine boy (laughs), but it is just the grace of God. I am so
lucky and also blessed by God to have married my God given
partner.

That is a very important thing about marriage, you have to
find and marry your God given partner. That is why a lot
marriages breakup. Some men marry women because of their
hips, their "oranges", legs and some other side attractions. But
after s*x with her so many times, what happens next? Does
she have a good attitude, character or good human
relationship with others? I am not saying we are perfect
couple, we have our own differences but we are compatible.

We have been married for over 17 years with four beautiful
kids. One thing that has been working for us as a couple is
that I always encourage her to be who she wants to be. I give
her full support always. Lots of married women that are
caught cheating on their husbands could be traced to the fact
that some of their husbands don't allow them explore their
talents. I encourage my wife and kids to be what they want to
be. Most of the influential men and women we have in this
world didn't even go to school. So it is all about exploiting
your talents. Some women love acting but their husbands
won't let them believing that other men would touch or
exploit them sexually. It is all about discipline. Those that
want to cheat will cheat; it is all about self control.

So when you see your wife kissing on set, you don't get
jealous?

No! Not all. My wife tells me about her acting. Most times
she even complains that some actors she acts love scenes with
have mouth or body odour that she can't wait to leave this
scene. So I even pity her on what she has to go through and
endure being an actress.

This acting thing is just some minute acts and that is it. Will
she follow the actor home? Lots of homes have been broken
because of too pressure on the wife or even the kids.

For the 17 years that you have been married, what are
those special moments you can't forget in a hurry?

Hmmm! Truly and honestly, I can't forget the very first day I
made love to my wife