want to do is turn them off. That said, here are a few
common blunders that you should not commit.
1. Not kissing
Believe it or not, many people (and this includes women)
don't kiss their partner when they're having s*x. Why?
Perhaps because the positioning doesn't allow for it or they
are too eager to climax and feel that it might break the
rhythm. Nevertheless, it is highly recommended that you
make an effort to kiss your partner during the act – it will
only add to the experience.
2. Biting before your partner's ready
While many people enjoy an aggressive partner, biting any
part of their body before they are aroused may lead to pain
and discomfort (and might even lessen the chances of any
further action ) or simply scare them off. So make sure your
partner is fully excited before you bite their ear, shoulders,
neck or any other part of their body.
3. Ignoring everything but sexualised parts
private parts are great, no doubt, but you should definitely
pay attention to other parts of your lover's body and focus
for some time on their entire body – knees, wrists, back and
stomach are highly erogenous zones for men as well as
women. Gently caressing these areas will help excite your
partner further; in turn, increasing the chances of them
pleasuring you back.
4. Putting your weight on your partner
Even if you're a girl! It's okay to lose yourself in the
moment every once in a while and go crazy on your lover.
But when you're lying on top of them, you have to be
careful not to drop your weight on them. Chocking them or
hindering their ability to breathe will anyway kill the
moment and any chances of some good action.
5. Climaxing too soon/ too late
This one is especially for men. You need to have good
control on your muscles to ensure that you can release at an
appropriate time. Too soon and you may leave your partner
unsatisfied; too late and it might leave your partner feeling
as if they're pumping iron at the gym. To avoid this, spend
a lot more time on foreplay (this will help men as well as
women). If you take too long and can only release via
manual stimulation, do your best to get your partner to
climax and then they can return you the favour.
6. Not warning your partner before you climax
If you're going to let go – and this applies even to women –
whether during oral s*x or intercourse, you need to tell
your partner beforehand. Something as simple as "I'm
going to let go," will suffice. Your partner deserves to
know.
7. Treating s*x like P0*n
Although some couples enjoy having raunchy s*x, you'd
be wise to talk to your partner before you engage in such
behaviour. If you begin being nasty with your lover without
knowing if they like it first, chances are the scenario won't
end on a happy note.
8. Staying quiet
Do you like to hear it when your partner is having a good
time? So pay them the same respect and speak up when
you're enjoying yourself. Something as simple as a little
moan, or even saying something like, "that feels so good,"
will encourage them and educate them further on your
moan zones.
9. Mechanical act
It may feel comfortable to you to pump away like you do at
the gym, but you'll quickly discover that most people don't
enjoy such an act. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times,
then slowly. Be creative and you'll find yourself enjoying
some variation too.
Culled from Times of India
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