Tuesday, 7 January 2014

Must Read: Ciara writes an Open Letter To Bloggers;

Ciara Uses her personal Blog, to wrote:

I used to sometimes like visiting some of the blog sites to
see what new things are happening in the world! Things
like cool photos, current events, etc. But nowadays it seems
like there's a competition with sites on "Who Can Tear
Someone Down the Most." The stories are going from cool
and creative to pure drama. Even the comment sections are
beginning to get out of control and people are using the
platforms to exercise a false sense of power.

People sure do have a lot of courage when they are anonymous. It's like a "Who Can Say the Nastiest
Comment Game." I click onto some of the comments
from something as fun as an Instagram post that you're
sharing with your fans, and a person finds a way to turn a
positive post into a negative. I think to myself, "I could
pick this person apart so bad but what for? Why act ugly
like them?" It honestly takes the fun out of it when people
seem so miserable.

Or at least that's how I view someone wasting their
energy to tear someone down, just plain miserable. They
could be using that to do something much more
productive. If only they could channel their energy
towards positivity, it could make a difference in their own
life as well as influence others. It's kind of scary for the
kids coming up, because even if a parent doesn't allow
their kids to have blog site access at home, they may still
have access at school or other places. It's now almost
impossible to protect your kids from the vile things people
say on blog sites today, and it's even worse when kids
hear hurtful things about themselves, their parents or other
family members. In some cases kids have even resorted to
suicide due to "cyber-bullying."

My questions to people creating slander about people are:
What stops you from thinking twice about trying to
defame someone? What are you trying to gain?

Words are powerful. You could say the wrong thing about
someone, famous or not, on the wrong day and that could
cost them their life because they're at a weak point.

Believe it or not, you could also be encouraging them to
give up on their life or whatever the situation is, when
they shouldn't. Or what about a story that causes
unnecessary drama stemming from completely false
information? It's just flat out wrong and sad. I say to
myself, I thank God for making me strong, because I've
always been able to use the negativity as motivation, and
it makes me stronger.

But I don't just think about myself in this, I think about
others that I see getting thrashed and think it's just so
wrong. It's very sad that people just want to tear people
down so bad just to see them unhappy. It's unbelievable
how far people are willing to go to get people to come to
their site.

I say this to say….

Dear Blogger,

It's never worth it in the end when you sell your soul for
a quick dollar, by creating bad stories about people. At
some point, it will all reverse on you and you'll end up
regretting all the trash you wrote or said about people.

The universal friend "Karma" has demonstrated this
over and over again. I strongly encourage you to project
more positivity into the universe. If Social Media is a
world that's growing more massive by the day, why not
use it to shed light?? Otherwise, you are merely
contaminating our universe.

What about your family and kids?? Do you think about
them?? You're definitely creating a harmful and volatile
environment where they must learn to live. It's almost
like you are cursing future generations with your bad
energy.

Not to mention…Your "Personal Karma"??… Forget
about it!

You better start doing some serious praying and
rebuking, cause only The Lord knows!…:)

I sure do miss the good ol days when the focus was about
the pure creativity of being an artist. Back then there was
still some mystery. Social Media Is Beginning To Take
Away The Specialness of What That Was, and Is.

Now, Off Blogs. Peaceful Mind. Living In My Happiness.
Creativity Only.
Love, C

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