gentleman. But every woman still hopes to find a true
gentleman, chivalry is surely not dead. Times are changing,
and the way in which we perceive perfection is changing as
well. Sure, you don't have to dwell on perfection, since there
is no perfect man. But still, here are seven rarest qualities of a
true gentleman that women would love their men to have.
1. Manly manners
I'm sure lots of women will agree that manly manners are
lacking in modern men. When a true gentleman meets your
parents, you don't worry about what he will do or say. He is
never inappropriate, and he will do traditional things such as
pulling out the chair for you or holding open doors. A true
gentleman will treat her woman like she deserves to be
treated.
2. Patience
Patience is one of the rarest qualities of a true gentleman.
Sometimes men, without realizing it, push women to be
physical. Maybe it's not a terrible thing for you, but it can
make a woman uncomfortable, especially if she is not ready to
move forward in a relationship. If your man is a true
gentleman, he will understand your desire to wait, and he will
support whatever decision you take.
3. Calmness
Everybody is allowed to become angry, however, a true
gentleman keeps calm and collected in any situation. He
always knows how to cope with his temper and he doesn't
allow his frustration to alter his personality. Moreover, he will
never vent his anger on you.
4. He never uses swear words
A true gentleman acts a bit differently than a prince in Disney
movies does. Sure, he is not going to go around dancing and
singing to declare his love for you. Your relationship's going
to be real and cursing can happen sometimes. But there's a
huge difference between cursing in anger or excitement and
curses which are aimed at you. A true gentleman will never
use swear words, which will be aimed at you.
5. He never makes you feel uncomfortable
A real gentleman will never tell inappropriate jokes and he
will never push you to discuss a subject that you don't want
to talk about. He will never make anything that would make
you feel bad and uncomfortable. When you are around a true
gentleman, you are absolutely at ease.
6. Little sweetness
'Thank you' and 'please' are small words with a great impact.
It is very important for a person to show appreciation. Even
the smallest comment can make someone's day. After all,
don't you like when your hairstyle is complimented? You
want your man to smile at passersby and to be polite to sellers
and waiters. He will be a true gentleman they wish they knew,
and you are lucky enough to be a woman he loves.
7. Strong morals
A true gentleman will never take advantage of a woman. He
will never steal and drink and drive. He will never do
anything that he thinks is wrong or bad. He possesses strong
morals, and he knows which things are good.
I believe that true gentlemen do exist. You should also believe
that some day you will meet one of them. Stop thinking that
there are only bad guys. What other qualities do you believe
define a man as a real gentleman? Please share your thoughts
with us.
Culled from Amerikanki
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