Are Your Still Attracted To Your Ex?

Women's typically keep their mouth shut even if they are still
attracted to their ex or have some strings attached to them.
Many women are seen denying it completely but you know
the fact somewhere in your heart. Well this can be
discussed in two parts – Firstly, Are you attracted even now
long after your break up to your ex and hence how do you
identify it. Secondly, if you are how you can get over it.

Do you from time to time, think about your ex and get lost
in the happy times you had. Does thinking about your ex
still stir emotion in you like anger, a vow for revenge or
emotional bout of tears? Are you talking raving mad about
your ex to your friends even now

Where does that leave you, simply saying that your ex is
still holding a dear place in your heart and mind? We would
say if he or she has moved on, you are silly sitting around
thinking of them. Not that we don't understand break ups
can be tough but you have to get over it sometime, why not
now. Most of the times, a person does not give getting over
their ex a conscious shove hence, they still string along
with emotion from break up.

How can you get over your ex? Do you still have his/her
phone number, email address, address, letters, emails? Do
not hang on to all this, they are just tagging on your heart
strings. Delete or lose them intentionally or you will always
feel like clinging on.

You may cherish good times together but make a point to
not think about it every day. If it crops up in your mind, let
it run its course. Make an effort to socialize, do not jump in
to another relationship but give yourself time, make friends
and do not tell them of the disappointment or the issue will
exist in conversation even there.

When we say time heals a break up, we mean it. A sudden
relationship will only act like a transactional relationship.

Hence stay friends and when you feel you have
overpowering emotions for another, get in to a relationship.
With old friends, stop the discussion of the topic. It's tough
but you might as well do it. Have fun, do spontaneous trips,
get a new look and change a few things.

Does it make you feel that if you meet your ex again it will
send you swirling back in to the pool of requited love?
Make sure you give yourself enough time and space before
you go any near. Though when we say this, do not prepare
for the day, instead let life take its course.

If you feel you have emotional baggage from the
relationship, find means to give it up, get counseled or try
mediation. For some people these means work. Lastly if are
tired of the nagging feeling of one sided love, make a
conscious effort and you will get over it, give it time.

Culled from Informationng