The fact that she no longer wants to attend your family's
functions or hang with your friends is one of our signs
she's cheating on you. This sign may be indicative of
cheater's remorse on her part, which means that she likely
feels guilty about cheating. The less she immerses herself in
your circles (which contain people who are painful
reminders of her sins), the less mental anguish she'll have to
endure.
9. She nags you incessantly
Gone are the days when the two of you could communicate
with harmonious precision. Now, every sentiment you
express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at
you.
If such an about-face sounds familiar, she may be
subconsciously trying to justify her little tryst. Nagging you
helps eliminate or at least ease her nagging guilt. So if she
habitually begins to point out your every flaw, you may
want to get to the bottom of what's really going on because
it's one of our signs she's cheating on you.
8. She has a mysterious friend
A telltale sign that your woman is cheating arises when a
mysterious friend inches his way into the picture. Whether
it's someone she claims is a coworker or an old friend from
way back, she keeps this friendship under wraps and is
hesitant to share any general details about him, much less
introduce you. And it doesn't take a Ph.D. to figure out
why.
7. She deflects simple questions
You should be suspicious of your girlfriend when she
refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions or
answers questions only after repeating them back to you,
which usually indicates a mind that's searching for a lie. Be
wary of times when, rather than reveal that she got home at
midnight, she begrudgingly asks, "Why do you want to
know what time I left the coffee shop?" If she gets
defensive about disclosing information that she used to
volunteer without hesitation, she may be hiding something
or someone and it's one of the surest sings she's cheating on
you.
6. She shifts priorities away from you
If she is involved in a hot and heavy romance with someone
else, you'll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities.
Suddenly, there are no more implied Sunday dates at the
movies or something always comes up on dance-lesson
Thursday. There is a tendency for most philanderers to
schedule meetings with their new flame as often as they
can, which results in a complete disregard for previous
engagements.
5. She puts more effort into looking sexy
You may like her just the way she is, but that won't stop her
from trying to dazzle her new fling. Just as you tried to
impress each other at the beginning of your relationship,
she'll try to impress her new flame with a sudden urge to
improve her style, change her makeup and alter her physical
appearance for the new man in her life. So, while her desire
to look sexier is one thing, not caring about your opinion on
the matter is quite another.
4. She becomes autonomous
One of the biggest signs she's cheating on you is her
breaking away from your little two-person unit to become
more autonomous. She has dropped " we" from her
vocabulary in favor of "I." Moreover, she does more things
on her own and stops consulting you about future plans. In
short, she conducts herself in ways that hint that she no
longer needs you to hold her hand. Whether she's hoping
you'll leave her or she's simply looking for more time to
lead her "double life," it's safe to conclude that she wants
you out of the picture — she just can't build up the nerve to
leave you.
3. She has no interest in sex with you
When your relationship was new, the two of your were full
of passion and open to spontaneous lovemaking. Now it's all
a bit iffy, whereby you're rarely hitting the sheets and you're
only doing so if and when she feels like it.
On a slightly more ego-bashing note, she may suddenly
become bored by your performance and appear to be
thinking about someone else when you do make love.
Cheating may be wrong, but you can't deny that unlawful
sex is usually more exhilarating. So, if you can no longer
satisfy her sexually, someone else may be rubbing her the
right way.
2. She's secretive about her schedule
She may claim to no longer have time for any
extracurricular activities with you, yet she has one foot out
the door the minute one of her girlfriends calls. Either that
or she has been "going away on business" one too many
times. And when she does leave, her whereabouts are
sketchy at best and you are somehow always the last to
know.
Disclosing her itinerary to you at the last minute and
overlooking your plans in the process can mean many
things, one of which isn't that she's forgetting, but rather
leaving you out.
1. You become irrelevant
What could be worse than a girlfriend who nags you about
absolutely everything? How about one who stops noticing
that you're even alive? Just as No. 9 on our list of signs
she's cheating on you is a possibility (she nags you
incessantly), the opposite could be yet another clue of your
loves cheating ways.
All at once, she doesn't care if you don't want to go to the
ballet with her; she'll just find somebody else with whom to
go. And whatever opinion you may have, be it about how
she looks or how you're feeling, is met with a tepid
response. In other words, she doesn't place the same
importance on what you think and what you do as she once
did, especially on things that directly affect the relationship.
Keep Jealousy In Check
Don't delude yourself into thinking that your woman would
never cheat and don't rush to judgment either; if she is
guilty of committing any signs on the list, perhaps it's
indicative that something is awry in the relationship. In any
case, this is a great opportunity for you to address problems
you may not have noticed before scanning this article.
More importantly, don't let what may just be a bad case of
jealousy taint your perception of her. Reading her the
wrong way or jumping to conclusions can permanently
sever a relationship; get all the facts before you confront
her.
Culled from Askmen
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