Thursday 9 January 2014

5 Qualities Men Look for in a Life Partner

What qualities do you look for in a woman when you decide to go for the lifelong commitment? Although every man has his own idea of the "perfect one", there are some qualities that are absolute musts for a happy relationship. We did our own
little survey and asked some men around, and here is what
we found! These are 5 all-time toppers in a perfect wife
traits' list.

1. Independent
As dated as the concept of 'housewife' is, a majority of
men today do not prefer a wife who needs to be babysat. If
a woman seems to be incapable of handling herself without
you then you need to think twice. An emotionally and
financially independent woman is not only confident, but
she is also strong enough to handle tough situations that are
a part of married life. Also, emotionally independent
women are seen to be happier than the rest.

2. Presentable and well-mannered
Beauty is certainly a relative concept. However, what all
men would definitely want in a wife is for her to be
presentable and well-mannered. Having a wife who does
not know how to carry herself well at various social
occasions, or is clueless about talking to your friends and
family, would be a definite turnoff

3. Gives you your space
Why cricket? Where are you going? Why boys' night out?
Where? These questions will inevitably spoil your relaxed
weekend plans with friends. Having an over-possessive, too
clingy wife, who does not give you any space of your own
can be a reason of annoyance every single day. Apart from
that, marriage means letting each other grow as individuals
as much as a couple.

4. Mental compatibility
If a woman's thoughts and views are not in sync with
yours, then let's face it, it is not going to work in the long
run. No matter how beautiful she is, she will turn you off in
this case. Someone who is compatible with you, will know
your preferences and choices. You both can take decisions,
make choices and plan for the future without major clashes
of ideas. Also, having fun becomes easier with someone
compatible. In fact, every moment becomes fun.

5. Who does not nag
No one wants a mom for a wife. If she keeps asking
questions, keeps giving instructions about your health,
plans your daily timetable, and nags all day about it- you
will naturally be frustrated. A wife is expected to be more
of a friend than a strict governess.
When you find the perfect woman of your dreams, hang on
to her. Love her unconditionally. She will be the one
sticking by your side through thick and thin. So be a better
man for her and strive to keep a smile on her face.

Via: Information Nigeria

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