Saturday 22 February 2014

7 Truthful Things Men Usually Don’t Tell You

When you communicate with men you should always keep in mind that they usually don't tell you everything they think. I must admit that women are considered to be more talkative and emotional than men. Very often it can be a real problem for some men to express their feelings and emotions. They can't find appropriate words to tell the woman they like. However, it is possible to find a man who will easily share all his thoughts with you. But even these communicative guys can't speak about all the truthful things. Here you will find some of them.

1. You are so beautiful
Certainly, we women are melting when men tell us
compliments. But there are some guys who can do that
perfectly, while others find it really difficult. I met different
boys in my life. Though, only one of them could make me
happy with his pleasant words. It's so important for girls to
hear how pretty and beautiful they are. After that, their self-
esteem increases greatly. Sometimes you can be extremely
disappointed as you tried hard to do an excellent make-up for
some special occasion and nobody appreciated your great
efforts. In contrast to this, there can be such situations when
you don't pay much attention to your appearance, you simply
get up in the morning, do not do any make-up or hairdo, but
still some men can find lots of ways to tell that you are
beautiful.

2. They miss you
I'm sure that if a boy really loves a girl he will always tell her
how much he misses her. No doubt that all the girls become
excited on hearing or reading words about that. If your boy
can easily say to you "I miss you", you are really lucky.
Usually, it costs a lot of efforts for men to admit their true
feelings. For most of them, that is the matter of their pride.
Some boys will never say they miss you as they consider it to
be a shame and weakness. Predominance in the relationship is
the most important for them. Such men do everything possible
to hide their true emotions. What should you do if your
boyfriend is one of them? Simply take the initiative in your
hands, break the ice and say first that you miss him. This
tactics works perfectly.

3. They can't be alone
A lot of women get nervous of being alone when they become
older. It will be a big surprise for you, but some men also
worry about this issue. I have never thought about this before
as almost all my friends married in their 20's and they didn't
feel any anxiety because of loneliness. Only some time ago,
after speaking with my boyfriend, I began to realize that most
men are afraid of being alone when they grow older. We can
see that both men and women have the same fears and
feelings. The difference is that men won't always express all
their emotions and thoughts.

4. They don't like your guy-friends
If you go out with your friends among whom there are also
guy-friends, don't expect that your man won't be jealous.
Certainly, he will. Just he is strong enough not to show you
all his worries. Besides, when your boyfriend feels jealous
about you that means he has some doubts concerning your
love. You should remember that there are two types of boys:
those who can be mad because of their jealousy and those
who will never express their real feelings. Perhaps you think
your man doesn't love you enough as every time when you
meet with your guy-friends he doesn't tell anything and never
objects. Don't jump to conclusions, maybe your boy find it
difficult to speak about that subject with you. Be sure, he is
always jealous even without any good reasons.

5. Boy's nights out are not always great entertainment for
them
Whenever our men go out to see their friends and spend a
night with them at a club or some bar, we become crazy and
jealous. Usually, girls imagine that lots of women will be
around their guy and speak all night and flirt with him.
Actually, this is wrong opinion. In most cases, men go out for
boy's night for relaxing and chatting with the mates. For
instance, when my boyfriend comes back after such meetings,
he says that he was bad without me and it would be better for
him to spend the night out with me in some cozy restaurant.
That's why you should not angry at your sweetheart when he
wants to have some night out with his friends.

6. Concern about the right choice in their life
Definitely, all people think about their achievements and
success they've reached at some certain age. When we
become mature, we begin to analyze what was right and what
was wrong and what could be changed. Our dear men are the
same. Their worries and aims are not different from ours, they
only don't speak often about them or don't speak at all. It
happens so that sometimes men need more time to understand
what they want in their life and make right choice. It is
necessary for men and women to figure out their life path and
follow it until they are 30 years old.

7. You are too emotional when you have PMT
If you have a caring and loving man in your life, he will
always understand that involving you in some meaningful
conversation during your PMT is not a good idea. It's not a
secret for you how nervous, irritable and scary you can be
these days. But your ideal man will never tell you that. He
will try hard to keep calm and reserved even at such terrible
moments when you can cry and shout at him without any
reason. We should be proud of our patient men as that is
really hard work to cope with our monthly moods.

Now you can understand that for some men, it can be hard to
show their feelings and share their thoughts. You should never
make your boyfriend guilty because of that. He surely loves
you very much and he is quite emotional guy, just he can't
speak so easily about certain things. In order to know men
better we need some time and experience. Do you have a
boyfriend? Does he often express his feelings and emotions or
does he try to hide them from you?

Via: Amerikanki

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